8 Things People Learnt, in life, the hard way :-
Life gives you the whirl of emotions. Even I, sit at times, randomly, saying if i did anything wrong to the people i met today or something like that. In the end, its all because we have learnt stuff the hard way in the past. Lets get through a few of them :-
1) Stop giving importance to someone on high alert until they show they deserve it : Life is full of surprises. We meet many people. By many people, the circle is big. Importance itself means giving someone some good priority in your life. So when we get to know someone, lets just get to know them more first, and then think on taking them on a serious note in our lives.
2) Be humane to others in general : Importance and humanity are two different things. We come across many people as said above but being humane to them is the thing every human being deserves. If you make someone smile a day, it would surely bring a laugh on their face that they weren't expecting the whole time at that point. Be nice to people. Giving them full importance is something else.
3) Past made your present. Stop moaning about it : In general i see people moaning about their past. Though we don't know what they went through and that time is the toughest but we still can make one change in ourselves and that is MOVE ON. This is the present which is right now. Past would make it more effective and worse if we would even think of remembering it.
4) Talk LESS, to everyone, if you are more social : People generally forget what they have to share when they start to meet and know many people in their lives. Everyone won't get what your emotions are like. Friends do know and keep that emotion talk to your friends. The lesser you moan in front of everyone, the faster you heal.
5) Priority in life : We often don't have any idea whats our priority in life. Thats why we get confused and we just screw everything up. We definitely should try this , it would take about five seconds, whats our priority again? Friends ? Family ? Facebook ? Religion ? Honesty ? There you go. Think on it.
6) Respect people for what they did : I mean, lets face it, as the slogan of The Social Network says, " You don't get to 500 million friends without making a few enemies". So, despite the fact, you have grudges, show respect, even if you can't show anything else.
7) Don't get in a relation forcefully if you don't feel like : Who doesn't want love? Who wants to stay single? But people rush in it. People rush and think that things would get better. But love happens. You can't force it to be with you. You have people with you already. Its tough. Its hard. But let love come the natural way to you, the way you deserve. Or else, its just hurt and then people moan " We got heartbroken" .
8) Last, Stop over-thinking : Yes, including me, many people over think about everything. Let just leave things the way they are for a while. Lets just not give our useful opinions to everyone, in a conversation even, because if anyone would want for our opinion, they would ask. Stop blabbering about diet. You would get into a gym and get slim one day if we really wanted to. And would ignore junk food. Stop over THINKING! Thats right. Thank Allah for who we are right now. The best part is, you're blessed that you can read this.
Composed by Fakeha Ali
Twitter : @Fakeha01
Labels: Awareness
