"Fear"

Fear. What is fear?
I've never been able to comprehend fear. It is a delusional yet such a relevant state of mind.
You're afraid when you're nervous and you're afraid when you're at loss. Where nervousness and loss are such irrelevant terms but eventually at some point their relevance exists. So, again, what is fear?
As a matter of fact and from what I've come across in life; there's no such thing as fear. You're nervous about losing something you don't want to lose and you're afraid of loss. Observe the relevance in loss and nervousness. You're afraid not because you're going to lose that certain thing in life but you're afraid of the phase of addiction you're in. You can't lose that one thing that makes you happy. It is not at all because you want it but because you're mind falsely tells you that you need it. Consequently, you become afraid. But being afraid is again relevant to what you're doing. Once you realize that you won't be affected by the loss of your addiction then you're not afraid or bothered and so you become fearless.
In our lives, we lose several things but the ones that put us in fear are the ones we value the most. I wouldn't be afraid of losing a pencil I use but I'll be afraid of losing that one pencil that my dad got me on a certain occasion. The more you associate your life with things, the more afraid you are of losing them.
This Is just another fragment of human nature. You live by associating things and remember events or memories with reference to others. That's just how we humans are. You cannot change that but you can't just centre your life around materialistic things too, they will break you, leave you in pieces and move on.
The same goes for our habits. Wise ones say, they make you or break you.



"Fear is a habit; so is self-pity, defeat, anxiety, despair, hopelessness and resignation. You can eliminate all of these negative habits with two simple resolves: I CAN AND I WILL."


-Napoleon Hill 


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